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Column 54
Mirrors and misdirection

Correspondence with the confused

By © Martin Foreman
Word Count: 791 words
Publication date: March 5, 2006

A column such as this is bound to get correspondence. Some comes from fellow rationalists applauding this or that column, for which I’m always grateful.

Other e-mails come from readers picking up errors or making points that I missed. In an early column I made the mistake of asserting that turkeys can’t fly – which came as a surprise to those who live in states where wild turkey are routinely shot from the sky.

Another column implied that Star Trek fans believe that Klingons, the Borg and other prosthetically enhanced aliens were real. The point I failed to make was that unlike Christians, Trekkies are very aware that their characters only exist in fiction.

I don’t get much e-mail from the God squad. Occasionally, however, a believer writes to me out of the blue.

So far, none has told me that I deserve to go to hell. They may believe that is the direction I am headed, but they have all been considerate enough to tell me they are praying for me.

I’m not sure what the polite response is in those circumstances. To say that they are wasting their time seems to be rude, while to thank them seems to legitimize their faith. Usually, I don’t reply.

Sometimes, however, I get longer letters from individuals concerned about my spiritual health and making statements about God and religion. I cannot resist replying to them and that is usually the beginning of a long, fruitless e-mail exchange.

For the past couple of weeks I’ve been corresponding with Dawn and Vanessa. Dawn is definitely a Christian; Vanessa’s God appears to be unaffiliated with any major sect.

Both are keen to convert me to their point of view. I would like them to see reason. As yet, no-one appears to be winning.

Vanessa’s first e-mail informed me “Wow you are so lost, that person seriously misses the WHOLE POINT. How humiliating for yourself. But don't worry I will show you something which will show you the TRUTH> (sic) The points you use against GOD saying this is why something is wrong, is the very reason GOD says it is wrong.”

I wrote back, saying that I didn’t understand her letter. After a confused response, I wrote again, asking a single question: “Why do you think there is a God?” 

Vanessa’s reply mentioned the “first mover” and “LOVE”. It concluded “In addition, I feel HIS SPIRIT and know- I am like a blind person (although I can see) who feels GOD and are witness to HIS WORKS.  GOD is in me, and I am with HIM you see?”

I didn’t see, and still don’t but we continued writing. Convinced that I am seeking God and persuaded that I contradict myself frequently, Vanessa continues to send me e-mails that she hopes will convert me.

But we have still not found common ground on even the most basic points. Recently she asked “How is it that you think it possible that the universe could just have always existed but  you claim (you think wrongly) that GOD couldn't have always just been as well?”

I have no idea why she thinks this is my opinion. I pointed out that as far as I knew the universe was only 15 billion years old. I added that without proof of God’s existence it was meaningless to ask how long he had been around. I’m still waiting (25 February) for a reply.

I find it easier to communicate with Dawn, a creationist. I have, however, been unable to change her mind on several key points. These include the difference between a very small possibilty and an impossibility, the implications of genetic mutation and the fact that human beings are not descended from monkeys.

Dawn writes me long, thoughtful e-mails but we’re talking past each other. I don’t buy her interpretation of the Bible and she cannot accept the idea that God might not exist.

Sadly, America is full of Dawns and Vanessas, men and women convinced by websites such as answersincreation.org that God exists. Such sites succeed because, like stage magicians who dazzle audiences with mirrors and misdirection, they use logical tricks to convince their readers that God exists.

Look behind the tendentious questions, the fallacious arguments and the failure to distinguish between cause and coincidence or between result and purpose and the proof of God’s existence vanishes into the ether. Too many Americans, however, like Dawn and Vanessa, prefer the stage show to the reality that lies underneath.

Which means that I’m not optimistic that either correspondent will change her mind. Meanwhile I am more than willing to accept God if given a reason to do so. On past experience, however, I don’t expect that Dawn or Vanessa will change mine.


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If God existed, he would...

admire the beauty of a universe that he did not create

recognize that eternity is meaningless

deny both heaven and hell

disown all men and women who speak in his name

denounce the harm caused by religious "morality"

help the human race to thrive without him

If God existed, he would be an atheist.





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